अनित्यम् जगत
Kṛśā Gautamī was the wife of a wealthy man of Shravasti.
After losing her only child, Kisa Gotami became desperate and asked if anyone could help her. Her sorrow was so great that many thought she had lost her mind.
After some time, an old man told her to see the Shakyamuni. The Shakyamuni told her that he could bring the child back to life if she could find white mustard seeds from a family where no one had died. She desperately went from house to house in search of such a case, but to her disappointment, she could not find a house that had not suffered the death of a family member. Finally, the realization struck her that there is no house free from mortality. Even when grief was real, it was part of the universal law of impermanence. She had to let go.
She became awakened and entered the first stage of enlightenment and eventually became an arhat.
Clinging to what is gone only deepens suffering. When one accept impermanence, whether of love, trust, or the person themselves, one finally puts the “dead child” down. From despair arises awareness, acceptance, and inner strength.
Though one should live a hundred years without seeing the Deathless State, yet better indeed, is a single day's life of one who sees the Deathless State.
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